It is a heavy painful burden that we carry around. It weighs too much and is full of sharp uncomfortable corners. Guilt and shame can become a toxic soup that poisons our interactions with others. Hopefully those laboring under the burden of unnecessary guilt will find it helpful. Even though I crave rough and dirty scenes, I get so concerned by my actions…is what I am doing wrong? Am I a bad person for doing rough play?
Dealing With Guilt Around Desires, Fetishes, and Cheating
By Piggylover, March 2, in Questions about Asexuality. I have a choking fetish a feel like a monster for it. Are they right? Why would my body have a positive response to hurting myself or others.
Erotic humiliation is my thing. Shame is powerful. When I started seeking out community around kink, I realized every one of us has experienced some kind of shame or stigma. Kink can be such an exciting and enlivening experience! It took me years to come to a place of acceptance with my kinky self.